A Spiritual Dilemma

I tend to speak indirectly about the work I do at a therapeutic boarding school.  And that distance is appropriate for clinical boundaries, etc.  In my reading lately, the themes that are emerging so relate to what I witness on a daily basis that I’d like to consider the following quote in that context.

“I will do harm to some mortals and benefit others.”

(Apollo speaking to Hermes, from Homeric Hymn to Hermes, quoted in Kerenyi, Apollo, pg. 45)

Experience seems to play this out.  How many instances can we point to where children raised in the same family have wildly different reactions and outcomes to the dynamics they faced growing up.   In the end, while engaged in the work I am fortunate to do with problem teens, it often comes down to a spiritual dilemma.

In each and every case there is no sure sign that can be an indicator as to which way things will turn out. Often times the student that seems to be making strides is only putting up appearances, while the most resistant and troubled youth is actually engaged in the life changing struggle that may in time lead to healthy mindedness.

Experience shows that many things do in fact ensure the best chances of resolving the dilemma.   Support.  Structure.  Care.  And an environment for exploring the conflicts, for engaging instead of avoiding.

While often the easy target for our woes, we are never simply struggling against our family of origin.  We must consider the hidden cosmic presence in our midst.