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Camelot

by Richard Reeve on January 14, 2010

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“…and the white knight is talking backwards…” The Jefferson Airplane

I asked “can you point me toward Camelot? I’ve heard the round table might yet be restored.”

At first the man hesitated, then added “perhaps, if only in our dreams.”

I shuddered at his dismissive tone and chose instead to join my daughter on the carpet, wooden toys in hand. The need to remove Excaliber from the petrified attitudes that darken our days is feeling like an overwhelming task being yet again postponed, put off on the next generation, and by example, those that will follow them.

Dare not let our dismissiveness breed dismissiveness…

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A Child’s Bookshelf

by Richard Reeve on October 25, 2009

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I’m learning a great deal these days about the importance of objects in psychological development. It made me recognize consciously something I knew in my gut: the value of developing a relationship with books before the age of reading.

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Ben and I spent some time exploring the Beaverkill River in Roscoe, NY yesterday and did our best to capture the experience with our various digital tools.

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Finding Play

by Richard Reeve on September 27, 2009

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Play is both easier and harder than we think, precisely because thinking has little to do with it.

The other day while I was with my daughter, she suddenly got pretty agitated with me. At eighteen months, the few words she has are not yet capable of expressing her frustration. Finally, through some charades like acting she made it clear that she wanted me to get out of the rocking chair where I was sitting and join her on the rug.

Symbolically, the message was the same. Come down to my level Dad. And the emotional tone of the moment shifted immediately once I hit the carpet.

What followed was “as if” she said: check out these blocks. Do you like the yellow one? Watch how they fall when I try to stack them. You try. Wow, that’s really high. Whoa…watch out…hahaha. It’s great to have you here Dad. Where have you been anyways?

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Preserving the bubble

September 17, 2009

“The child knows a natural reverie of solitude which we must not confuse with that of the sulky child.  In his happy solitude, the dreaming child experiences cosmic reverie – that reverie which unites us with the world.” Gaston Bachelard, “The Alchemy of Imagination,” in On Poetic Imagination and Reverie, pg. 96
In my work with [...]

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Raising Digital Natives

September 11, 2009

Image by nudevinyl via Flickr

Parenting a digital native…hmm.  My thoughts aren’t real clear on this subject, but I know it’s important.  This past weekend we secured our son’s name.com and set up his first WordPress blog.
Over the past two years we’ve been playing with the unconnected tools: cameras, gps, video, audio.  He’s assembled quite [...]

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Wild Ride

September 8, 2009

The first years are nothing short of a wild ride. Early childhood development is continual transformation. When I think that only six months ago our daughter began to walk, and now I watch her climb up and stand on anything, including a table if she can get that far, I see how in [...]

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The symbolic through the literal

September 3, 2009

We visited Howe’s Caverns today. As we wandered along the passageways that followed the River Styx deep beneath the cow pasture overhead, thoughts of Virgil and Dante descending into the depths coupled with Verne’s Journey to the Center of the Earth swam through my mind.
We read the Verne novel to our son Ben at [...]

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funny how it comes down to basics

August 30, 2009

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We see this scenario played out over and over again. A family on a day trip, or at the store, or perhaps the park. Maybe they are relatives visiting. Or maybe they are at a public gathering like a fair or concert. It doesn’t really matter where.
The point [...]

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Building Memories

August 25, 2009

Yesterday my son and I harvested some of the herb garden. The sage, thyme, rosemary, and spearmint were all ready to be picked. Ben was particularly enthused about the mint when he realized we could make a tea that he even he could drink during the winter months. He’s been chewing [...]

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